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Step 3 – Control yourself:

Whether you are feeling angry, frustrated or depressed, you need to forget about your self-pity and instead concentrate on the positive side of working things out with your ex. If you appear defensive, needy or desperate, she may end up avoiding you for good.

Step 4 – Keep communication civil:

Although she ended the relationship it does not mean you cannot repair the communication lines and keep everything civil.  You do not have to be the one starting the conversation, but be open and at least say ‘hello’ and keep in touch.  And when you do talk to her, keep it light-hearted and remind her of all the good times you had together. Avoid arguing at all costs.

Step 5 – Analyze what went wrong:

Above all else, you need to figure out the cause of the break up. If you want to win your girlfriend back you need to admit your flaws or mistakes and learn from them.  Once both of you have had time to think about the break up, try find out from her what caused the arguments, which of each others needs you weren’t fulfilling, and work on fixing the problem areas.

This will show her how mature and serious you are about being a better person and getting her back. Women want to be understood and cared for, so if you can show her that, then there is a good chance for you to win your girlfriend back.

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